Life Lesson #4: Declutter the DistractionsLife Lesson #4: Declutter the Distractions
Looking back not all of it was bad, but then there were parts of it that took me many tears and years, (until I met Erik, PTL) to get healed from everything I experienced. Some of these relationships started out seemingly good and then slowly they began to be a distraction.
The declutter in my friendships was I came to the realization that True friends are those who were honest, built you up, edify you, encourage you and pray for you. And It is extremely important that your friendships are healthy and they are a reciprocal relationship. There were people in my life at the time that talked about me behind my back, that would ask me to do things or go places i wasn't comfortable with, nor did they want me to succeed in my life. It was a hard choice for me to let go of these friends, because I felt like I had invested so much time and energy in developing these friendships it was hard to walk away.